They attacked.
I was going to give loads of specific examples from Howard's Grounds of Resistance as they are such outrageous lies, but my dignity wouldn't allow it. I'll give you a few though. The allegations are so outrageous it’s almost funny.
Almost.
Most of his behaviour towards me, Howard claims, was to deter my sexual pestering. Without knowing I’ve done so, Howard mentions many incidents I’ve blogged about. He says I did them to myself in an attempt to get sexual attention. At one point he says he believes I quit because I didn't think he'd leave his wife! Other things, like the shredded letter from my ‘Resurrection’ blog, he claims never happened at all.
I'm so angry and upset. Even though it’s not like I didn’t see it coming. What a surprise! They are alleging that I’m desperately lonely and needy because I live on my own.
I feel like I’m in the middle of an extraordinary experiment into workplace bullying. It’s hard to explain, but the allegations on both sides now are so awful, I don’t know what will happen next. Howard and his colleague are, as yet, unaware of the mountain of evidence I’ve been collecting for almost a year – but they will find out soon enough.
So I guess the experiment is this:-
If I can’t prove that I was being bullied then no one can.
Wish me luck.
See you soon. Eva x
2 comments:
good luck eva, so glad to hear you quit at last! take them to the cleaners and make sure it all goes public, he needs to be exposed otherwise he will just keep on doing it and it will be swept under the rug. think of how many other secretaries will have to go through the horrendous experience you have had if he gets away with it. all the best, dave x
Thanks so much davek. You are quite right. I said to my solicitor, I've always had it in the back of my mind - someone might have to replace me.
The further I get in this process the more I think I'll have to go to Tribunal like you said.
xx
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