I hope you saw the BBC Three documentary, Can’t Bully Me, which followed four youngsters as they tried to overcome the traumatic effects of bullying, with the help of the Red Balloon organisation.
It was very emotional. I wouldn’t wish what I went through on my worst enemy, let alone children. But it was a program of light and shade. The support the children got from Red Balloon was amazing. In fact, I took some of their advice myself yesterday.
Still unable to go to the work Christmas party, colleagues are curious. It’s only a week away now. As they discussed their dresses and gave me questioning looks, I felt under pressure to go. But I know full well, if I force myself, it will trigger a string of panic attacks. Work mates imagine I don't want to go because of a previous Christmas indiscretion. How can I explain it's because I'm terrified of being bullied and humiliated because of the way I look?
And that’s the reminder I got from Red Balloon. It’s to employ patience. If something makes me very anxious – then that’s the way it is for the time being.
Best wishes
BBTB x
Saturday, 27 November 2010
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Is there a link you can give me for Red Balloon.
I'm sure the decision you make on the staff xmas party will be sound. If any one considers bully you on your looks you know as fact that person is a loser, no questions asked. x
Hi Mr Fan,
Of course, Red Balloon is at www.redballoonlearner.co.uk. They specialise in the recovery of bullied children. It's a wonderful organisation.
Thanks for your Christmas party support. Truly appreciated x
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